Ian O’Byrne
Overstory Writing

Federating the Self: Openness, Privacy, and AI in the Garden

What it means to federate your self across website, newsletter, and notes.

Posted
Nov 5, 2025
Last revised
May 1, 2026
Author
Ian O’Byrne
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3 min
Topics
knowledge-systems · ai · writing

In an earlier post, I discussed learning out loud and building up my website, newsletter, and note-taking system. In this post, I try to document some of my concerns as I engage in this work and help guide others.

The hope is that others will express their concerns and questions, allowing us to determine a way to address both the human and digital aspects of this challenge.

When I first started using this federated system, I believed that everyone should have a single canonical URL. A single home online that connects everything you create.

But the more I’ve worked on this, the less certain I am.

But I’m starting to think that not everyone wants (or should want) to be completely visible online.

The Privilege of Openness

I’ve been able to share openly for years, and that’s partly because of privilege. As a white, cisgender male in academia, I can afford a level of publicness that isn’t safe for everyone.

However, I’ve learned that what feels like transparency to me might feel like exposure to someone else. In a sense, a form of privilege.

Federation, connecting your digital spaces and identities, isn’t neutral. It’s shaped by power, by access, by who gets to speak safely online.

So while I still believe in openness as a value, I’m learning to see it as something that needs boundaries. A kind of intentional openness , rather than total transparency.

The Reader’s Burden

There’s another problem. Even when we can share everything, maybe we shouldn’t.

In a world of algorithmic noise and information overload, dropping a giant network of interconnected notes online might do more harm than good. It can overwhelm readers rather than empower them.

As someone who studies literacy and reading comprehension, I am aware that cognitive overload can cause individuals to become overwhelmed. When we flood them with too many threads, they stop trying to connect any of them.

Sometimes, clarity requires curation. Sometimes, restraint is a form of care.

The AI Dilemma

And then there’s AI.

Currently, large language models are scouring the open web for training data. They’re feeding on exactly the kind of open, federated knowledge ecosystems many of us have spent years building.

So I find myself torn.

Do I continue to publish everything openly, knowing it may be absorbed by opaque systems? Or do I start walling off my work to protect its integrity?

Lately, I’ve been experimenting with open-source, locally hosted AI models that can read my notes and assist me in thinking. Privately, securely, and ethically.

I want AI to be a cognitive amplifier , not a content thief.

But building that balance. Open yet safe, connected yet controlled, is hard.

Federating Responsibly

The more I do this, the more I realize that “federating your second brain” isn’t just a technical challenge. It’s an ethical one.

It’s about designing systems that:

  • Encourage curiosity without demanding exposure
  • Build networks without erasing boundaries
  • Invite remixing without enabling exploitation

Maybe the goal isn’t a single home online anymore. Maybe it’s a federation of homes. Distributed, resilient, and intentionally porous.

A web of living places where our ideas can breathe, but where we still decide what’s public, what’s private, and what’s compost.

The Garden as Metaphor

If the first phase of my digital work was about cultivation , this one is about stewardship.

I’m learning that gardens don’t need to be fully open to be alive. Some parts grow best behind fences. Others thrive when they spread.

Federation isn’t about control. It’s about ecology.

And in this moment, when AI systems are reshaping what it means to think, write, and share, perhaps our role as educators, researchers, and humans is to tend the garden. Together, but with care.